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1. 小思 2012-11-19 11:41:43
人就是這樣子,又不想得失對方,又要慳錢,所以有公價人情......
2. 上善若水 2012-11-19 12:41:51

人生中兩難局面好多，有人做得比較灑脫，亦有人容易糾纏其中，皆個性使然！

3. 逸瑤 2012-11-19 14:55:22
其實如果只是邀請關係要好的親友，那麼他們自然會高興收到你們的請柬、到賀時心甘情願地給足『人情』，全程享受婚宴並誠心地祝福你們。

但很多人希望自己的婚宴夠『排場』，必須筵開數十席才覺得『有面』。

然而普通的兩個人又何來那麼多關係非常要好的親友？
結果各湊了一大班相識的同事、舊同學等“朋友”來，對那些“朋友”而言，這是紅色『炸彈』，根本不是甚麼讓他們高興的事情。來也不是，不來也不是。免得你日後心存芥蒂，還是當破財擋災，勉強來了。但心裡不甘不願，又如何能開心地給你多的『人情』？

老實說，即便是這班人全都給足人情，勉強將一班跟你只是關係一般的人湊在一起吃一頓幾小時的晚飯，看你們的童年舊照、愛情故事等，是何等無謂？

硬湊來的觀眾只是讓主角們自我感覺良好而已。又何必呢？
4. anggie T. 2012-11-19 20:27:35

No. 3) You have a point.  Lots of my friends have invited over 50 tables & I'm clueless where are all these people from??  My husband have zero friends & invited only a table of his colleaques & I have 11 tables.  Still some people ask me how come I invited only a few??  I said my show-up ratio is 100% & I didn't waste any quota or mis-plan anything(one friend promised to come & he didn't & the other I didn't expect showed up! So 100% perfect, because I didn't invite anyone I don't think they'd come)

4 years ago the people also paid around $800 in hotel banquets(inflation has no effect here!) & we are not cheap couples, we offered our guests with reasonable buffet & top quality wines with over $1000 per person the cost.  Wedding is not the ocassion to make money from friends but in properties market, oh yes!!!

5. 仲達 2012-11-19 23:07:44

多謝今天回應的讀者。

逸瑤小姐及anggie T.小姐的留言，都很長很用心，很值得準新人們參考。

寫樓市以外的題材，是比較少人閱讀和回應，但有不少朋友私底下跟我說除了樓市，也想看看政經時事等文章，說是仲達言的特色。因此，為了平衡各方口味，樓市為主，政經時事為副，由開BLOG至今都是仲達言的方向。

6. CD ROM 2012-11-20 00:29:24
Sorry will need to use English in this computer...

This "Kong Gal 500" incident is completely telling the society about how marriage changed in these recent years... To be 1 of those "80 beyond" and get married early this year, I had tried to handle very carefully on the invitation list which aim to invite people, only at a level you will feel embarrassing if you haven't invited him/her... I afraid if someone being invited treated it as a "bomb", as the truth is, $$$ received is spent on the dinner but not my pocket at all...

Also the Gal in this incident had reflected handling  that much of money is a bit on her limit which she feel too nervous on how the return from "red pocket", which means how tight it is for holding such a big event for her and her man...